LJFS Year 10 student Libi Doerfler explores how everyday school rules and Jewish laws play a vital role in preserving identity and community.
Sometimes it’s hard to fully understand why certain rules exist, especially when they seem strict or limiting. But when I think about it, these rules aren’t just random; they come from biblical laws that have guided our community for generations. They set boundaries to help us live in a way that respects our faith and culture.
For example, the rule about not singing in front of boys isn’t just about control; it’s about preserving modesty and respect, which are core values in our culture. A lot of people in our school wish it were more of a Jewish environment, filled with more Jewish people, but if we stop following these rules, that reduces the opportunity for more religious people to join the school. When we follow these laws, we’re not only obeying rules but also showing respect for the traditions that have kept our community strong. Doesn’t that make you think about how much history and meaning lies behind what might seem like a simple rule?
I understand why it can be frustrating, especially when some people don’t follow the rules. One thing that really stands out is how, if even one person breaks the kashrut laws, it can affect everyone. For example, if someone thinks it’s okay to secretly bring a non-kosher sandwich to school, they may not realise that by eating it on the tables, they could make those tables non-kosher for someone who keeps kashrut strictly. It’s like the whole community feels the impact, and suddenly the trust and respect we’ve worked so hard to maintain is weakened.
On school trips, when it’s hot and I wish I could wear shorts, I understand why modesty is emphasised. It’s not about being uncomfortable for no reason; it’s about honouring the values that connect us to our faith and to each other.
So, next time a rule feels frustrating or unnecessary, pause and ask yourself: what does this protect and who does it connect me to? These biblical laws and cultural traditions are more than just restrictions – they carry the values, history, and identity of an entire community. When we choose to respect them, even when it’s difficult, we’re choosing to be part of something bigger than ourselves. And maybe the real question isn’t why the rules exist – but what kind of community we want to be if we choose to follow them.
